Monday, May 14, 2012

She-what you are looking for. But whom you never see.

Whatever 22 Female Kottayam is meant to be, it surely is not your everyday commercial movie. Is there romance, drama and action? Yes. But above all, it has liberation. That liberation that is very much the need of the hour in a society that is filled with just two breeds of men- the one that supposedly lets a woman spread her wings only to take her for granted and take advantage of her yet again. And then the other breed which stereotypes women as dumb, delicate darlings, weak and always expecting them to be a step behind.

 Aashiq Abu deserves a pat on his back for such a bold attempt of what I can see only as cleansing of minds. The movie is all about ‘she’. Hers to begin with, hers to live, hers to take and she ends it all. The plot revolves around a girl, Tessa Abraham. She is any girl that you might bump into. A girl with her dreams of flying abroad to take her nursing career to the next level. To fall in love with that knight in shining armour and live a beautiful fancy life that one sees in the dreams. And then, somewhere amidst this run, as luck would have it, she meets Cyril. An education consultant, Cyril guides her with inconsistencies of her name in the passport, stamps a visa on it and puts her on a timeline to fly to Canada. But, as destiny would take it upon itself, the duo fall in love, move in together and live a life, what one is forced to reason as “living the moment”, without paying much heed to the logical ifs and buts that rise up in any relationship.

 While the story may ooze cliché, the ways in which Tessa gets deceived and comes back to exact revenge is a delivery that every girl would want to look back with pride. The subtlety with which Aashiq affirms this delivery is a very fine line that differentiates this from clichés and emotional upheaval. A girl, who accepts to have lost her virginity with a previous, precious love is not bound to be received with respect of any kind from any man. Especially for one who has always had to refer into his belief system to make sure that he is ‘free’ by the books. It isn’t any different with Cyril. Once Tessa confides in him about her morally stained past, it becomes all the more easier for Cyril to take her for granted- take her emotions, sexual acceptance, love and boundaries with regards to that love for granted. And he cheats her. Until a point where he puts her in prison, in what can only be perceived as the easy way out for a guy to wash his hands off. How? Simple. Put some drugs into your girl’s purse when she is in the rest room. May be another cliché yet again. But for Tessa, thus and there begins a raw journey filled with shocks, pain, naked brutality and unfair, indispensable truth in prison.

 Indian viewers are more accustomed to seeing only the dirty side of prison; goondas grouping up with big, burly guys who team up against the weaker, smaller and the not-so-significant. The formula doesn’t differ much when it comes to women. But, for the first time, a prison is shown for what good it can do to one. A place to derive immense strength, grit and determination from all the good and bad- a perfect example of the black, white and grey. A place where judgements don’t matter. You are inside for something bad that may/may not be any fault of yours; you are as good/ bad as the person next to you. There is no real judge to see who is the bigger wrong-doer. The safest place for a criminal to be, as portrayed in the movie. A place for a real person to view the world for the actual stand it takes on an individual irrespective of one’s worth. The ultimate phase of lowliness when one begins to ponder in self-reflection with and without choice, which ultimately gives nothing more than strength to any individual, let alone the weakest.

 Tessa takes all this and more out of her time here. For the movie until then saw only her as the sweet girl who fell in love, a girl whose naivety was celebrated when she was in love, ridiculed when she was cheated and sympathized when she went through physical and mental torture. But now, she gets out with a chance to change all that. And when she gets out, she sets out to get her share of blood. With nothing more to offer anyone but the brutal strength that she derived while in prison. The rage burns in her but not in a murderous way. Not in anger or frustration or depression. But plain determination to see justice served the right way, in her own silver platter. And she kills. While this is just a portrayal of a fictional character in a hypothetical situation, the bare truth that puts its ugly face up is no different in today’s world. The line “you are after all a woman” delivered by Cyril to Tessa before she has her way with him, makes me, a woman want to think that this is what it has to come to. A criminal has to be dealt with this way and nothing is ever too much. This is right. And this is how you have to deal with such men. The mere arrogance of being born as one gets them as far as this in today’s world. They require no less. At the same time, it is again only due to the mercy shown in ways of love, care and forgiveness shown by the same woman that allows the very same man to rise again. To hurt her, yet again. And this is a situation that might not change for generations and eons to come.

 The movie is all about a very rational end met to people who wrong, and in this case, men. A progressive and aggressive movie, made to portray a woman as bare as her instincts can ever be and can ever get, in her complete ways of rage, love, grit and pain. This is a movie for everyone to watch and made for every woman who is out there and who suffered, at the hands of a man, an easy judgment to begin with when she becomes an easy target to when she becomes that doormat for a man, giving him the alms to walk all over her yet again. This is for every woman who has insatiable pangs in her to burn that man who did this to her. This is as close as she can get to her revenge. While Rima Kallingal outdoes herself in taking up the entire script on her shoulder to deliver this woman in her to everyone, this movie would not have conveyed its message without its key factor of Fahad Fazil. The remarkably splendid ways of how Rima takes upon the weight of this movie from the word go, to make sure that this movie runs purely on what she expects to reach out to, to the girl sitting next to her. This, take a bow, is your lead -the female lead, and this is what leading is all about. And yet another congratulatory pat on Aashiq Abu and his crew for having made this possible. And it doesn’t end there, because this is yet another mark for viewers to take note of, when it comes to delivering a story in Malayalam Film Industry- an industry which has never failed in all these years and yet again, one which has been setting new records and making new marks unattainable by anyone who is even remotely close, in the Indian Film Industry.

 A movie made for your daughter, where she can walk out with her head held high, walking several inches taller than all the men standing around. A movie that can only teach a girl what to truly expect from this brutal world and yet straighten her back and shove her in the right direction to push her into those inexplicable crowds only to watch her emerge out of it, used, washed out, hurt and tormented by her past yet brilliantly strong, admirably proud and brutally honest for being the woman that she is, ready to take the on the world.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

No chicken soup, this.

We do not often understand why we are suddenly standing in a secluded corner. But we do find ourselves there too often, scratching heads with an over turned eyebrow, asking ourselves "what went wrong? Why me?'. That question would win the most often question to be asked by humanity ever. It takes really long for us to figure out that while the world is distorted, crazy, unfair and non-linear, we might actually be losing it, standing right there in the middle of those huge crowds and screaming for help. To begin with, how many times do we go back to that one stupid moment of anger that shows itself in a moment, way uncalled for? Do we take a moment to think if the outburst was really needed? But of course, if one was to do that, there would be hope in this world after all. No, this ain't cynicism. But yet another moment where we need to re-think a situation.

I began with the habit lately, only after very recent happenings, plainly to ponder if its just the entire world that is wrong or could it be, could it actually be me?!! Well, whaddya know! Yours truly ain't perfect after all!

Being a low, depressed person, by choice, force or chance, takes a lot of that strength out of you. Before it can all come back even stronger. One realizes, and only he realizes that, that really is not the place he wants to continue to be in. And that one moment of reflection squeezes the grit out of him. Much as the world would think that he is calling for attention, it really is his burden to carry; to deal with the pain, anger and hatred that the world throws at him, at this juncture for being the way that he is. Living in denial to do so not only affects the mental state of being but it also ruins that physical mind and body that the world thinks that it is seeing. The one which the world judges, beats and throws away, without a moment of consideration. While it is extremely difficult to balance this mind, soul and body, it is imperative to control each of these aspects to live a healthy and peaceful lifestyle in order to bring about that balance in the equation that we call a healthy being.

An outburst in anger does not take long, but the damage done is often irreversible and pondered upon after the moment of contemplation, realization and acceptance has gone by. And that's what we can effectively call- one crazy moment of impediment. One needs to stand that spot again and think, "did it really matter that I had to use those very words which I did". The answer is, most often, no. No individual is sinister enough to want to hurt another being willfully. At least I would like to believe it is so in the perfect world that I would want it to be. Man is only made up so many words. So what he chooses in order to express his emotions truly felt, describes the human being that he is. Anger management has told us that counting helps. Well, I do not know how that works considering how strong my counting has got over these past many years. :P. But I certainly did realize that the act of vengeful hate or willful hurt ain't gonna fetch you a nice place by the window in that big black book that the Almighty may be keeping for the good deeds you have done. After all, no one act is a selfless deed, as Phoebe Buffay helps us see in F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

Thus it becomes absolutely necessary to clear the clutter in your head, free it of all those cobwebs and untangle yourself from all mind-fucks to be able to balance that equation we spoke about earlier. They all do like to go hand-in-hand, after all. And not heeding to that sheer want of peace and tranquility that your mind deserves is going to affect your physical state of being. With each individual living a life of wants and complications, one cannot really expect the other standing besides him/her to be sane enough. Be that change from within that you want the other person to be. After all, life is short and we do have to keep aside some amount of time in it for moments of self-reflection, thus allowing life to experiment and take us forward from there.